A source just dropped a bombshell about Jennifer Lopez, and it seems she has yet to accept that her relationship with Ben Affleck has come to an end.
The source spoke about this in an interview with world of heat where they were quoted as saying: “it’s understandable that he had a hard time moving on, it was all such a crazy whirlwind and it fell apart so suddenly.”
“But it’s been over a year and she’s still holding on tight,” the source added. So much so that “she refuses to accept that this is the end, she is convinced that there is more to their love story and she will not let it go.”
According to the source, “one thing about Jennifer is that she is incredibly stubborn, when she is convinced of something she will not give up.”
“It’s one of the secrets to her enormous success and a great trait in that sense, but it’s not a positive thing when it comes to her love life, it keeps her stagnant.”
Even her friends are starting to worry because she “constantly finds ways to bring up Ben in conversation. After the way he treated her, you’d think she’d complain, but a lot of times she just wants to remember her past. Even something as random as her cat walking into the room can make her talk about him and a time they shared.”
Still, she’s “stuck in this pattern of magical thinking,” the source said near the end.
Furthermore, “she insists that they are meant to be together, that it is written in the stars and that she can make it happen.” But “her friends have tried to gently tell her that she’s just making all of this a million times harder on herself, that what she really needs to do is manifest the strength to let go, but she’s obsessed with the idea that Ben is her soulmate and she can’t get over that.”
